Tuesday, April 28, 2009
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Illustrations
Photos!
An Example of the Etiquette Pages:
"In preliminary conversation the trivial should be selected rather than the profound. As a brilliant authority has pointed out, the lady to whom one has just been introduced is more likely to be set at her ease by the inquiry “Do you like string?” than by asking her “Do you love God?”
"When it comes to the greatest adornment of conversation – wit – you are either born with it or not, just as you are born a boy or a girl. One cannot cultivate wit, but of course one can cultivate an appreciation of it. And anybody who can quote at the appropriate moment the witty things he has heard other people say, is an addition to any social circle"
Overview of my book
This book is comprised of many pieces. These pieces form an entire book…or a pie, if you will.
Mainly, this book is comprised of conversation fragments and phrases the people in my life have said to me. It is an exploration of original phrases and wonderful words. I hate motivational phrases. There is nothing worse than hearing famous motivational phrases repeated endlessly, despite what the situation happened to be whilst they were being said. You will not find them anywhere in this book.
What you will find here is juxtaposition between the realities of what conversations sound like today, against how they used to sound from generations before mine. Conversations would often sound rehearsed and staged, as there were always “proper” ways of responding to others while engaged in a conversation with them. Also including, distinct guidelines and standard practices that were expected during any conversation.
Conversation etiquette has clearly changed over the course of many decades. You could argue that there is minimal practice in regards to conversation etiquette at all. This idea is exemplified through the following collected phrases throughout this book.
There are two sections that make up this book. The primary section is comprised literally, of all the incredible things the people in my life have said to me. It pays tribute to how conversations can be full of the most incredible thoughts and ideas. They are all spontaneously said in nature, never rehearsed, pre-meditated or previously used. My love for these words is indescribable. The typographic treatments are the phrases that have been exerted from a multitude of conversations.
The second piece of the pie within this book, pays homage to the wonderfully dejected conversation etiquette, that generally occurred between the 1920’s and 1940’s. The difference between conversations happening between people today compared to those from past generations is greatly significant. The following section
etiquette excerpts outline some of the more commonly practiced conversation etiquette standards.
The table, for which this pie sits upon, are photographs of meals and dinner parties. The reason for this being, the association made between conversation and social dinner settings. I have always attributed people gathering and conversing and socializing around food or in the presence of food. It is for this reason that the underlying connection between these two forms is food.






